Family Mourns Megan Bates of Hobbs, New Mexico, and Antwain Bates After Dallas Tragedy
HOBBS, Authorities and community members are mourning after a couple from Dallas, Texas, were found dead in an apparent murder-suicide in Hobbs on January 9, 2026, according to information shared by family and local sources.
The victims were identified as Megan Bates and Antwain “Ghotti” Bates. Law enforcement officials confirmed they are investigating the circumstances surrounding the deaths but have not released additional details, citing the ongoing nature of the investigation.
Antwain Bates, known by friends and family as “Ghotti,” was an alumnus of Alvarado High School, where he graduated in the late 1990s, according to those familiar with his background. News of the couple’s deaths has deeply affected family members, friends, and the wider community, including those connected to youth sports and faith-based organizations.
A family friend shared an emotional tribute reflecting on the loss and urging compassion for those left behind.
“Rest peacefully Megan Bates. The softball community has lost two beautiful souls,” the friend wrote. “I’m not buying into speculation. The bottom line is they’re both gone, and we may never know the full story. What matters most is that children have been left without a mother and a father.”
The friend described both Megan and Antwain as imperfect but caring individuals who were seeking support and guidance during difficult times.
“I had the privilege to pray and do Bible studies with both together and separately,” the friend wrote. “They tried hard and asked for prayer. It is heartbreaking, and I will continue to pray for everyone affected by this.”
As tributes continue to be shared, many in the community are choosing to focus on supporting the families and children impacted by the tragedy rather than speculating about what led to the deaths.
Authorities said the investigation remains active and that additional information will be released when appropriate. In the meantime, the community continues to grieve the loss of two lives and the lasting impact on those who knew and loved them.
